An ingrown hair is usually one small bump in an area you recently shaved, waxed or plucked, and you can often see the hair inside it.
On brown and Black skin, ingrown hairs often look dark brown, purple or grey rather than red, so the bump can be easy to miss until it is sore. The dark mark left behind afterwards is also more noticeable and lasts longer — often several months. That mark is pigment from the inflammation, not a scar, and picking at the bump is what makes it darker and longer-lasting.
A few other things look like a single ingrown hair. See Lookalikes near the bottom of this page.
A hair grows out of a follicle that runs at an angle through the skin. When the hair is cut, waxed or plucked, the new hair growing out has a sharp tip, and if anything blocks or deflects it, the tip can turn and push into the wall of the follicle or back into the surrounding skin. The body then treats the hair as a foreign object and surrounds it with inflammation, which is the bump you can see.
Curly hair is much more likely to do this, because it grows in a spiral and is already heading back towards the skin. Dead skin cells over the follicle opening make it more likely too, as does anything that flattens a hair against the skin — tight underwear, leggings or a snug collar. Shaving very close, plucking, and waxing all leave a hair that has to restart its journey out from below the surface, which is why the timing usually follows hair removal.
Most ingrown hairs need nothing but a warm compress and a few days without shaving. These are worth using if you get them often, to keep the follicle openings clear.
Most ingrown hairs never need an appointment. Go in if:
What the visit gets you: the hair released properly and sterilely, an antibiotic if it is infected, a prescription retinoid if you get them constantly, and a conversation about laser hair removal if the same area keeps flaring.
Prescriptions are not usual for a one-off ingrown hair. They come in when the bump is infected, or when you are getting them constantly in the same area.
Only worth considering if the same area gets them again and again. There is one option that ends the problem rather than managing it.
The bump is tender and may develop a small head. This is normal and not a reason to treat it.
The hair works its way free and the bump flattens on its own. Most ingrown hairs never get past this point.
A flat dark or pink mark is often left behind. It is pigment, not a scar, and it fades over several weeks to a few months.
Getting one occasionally is normal. Getting a crop every time you shave is razor bumps, which has its own page and much better long-term answers, including laser hair removal.
A single ingrown hair is harmless and usually sorts itself out.
A few other things produce a single sore bump.